How to Start Discipling Others (Even If You Don’t Feel Ready)

For many Christians, the word disciple sounds intimidating—like something only pastors, missionaries, or seasoned believers are qualified to do. But here’s the truth: If you follow Jesus, you are called to help others follow Him too. That’s what discipleship is. 

Jesus didn’t tell His followers to simply “attend church” or “stay out of trouble.” He commanded them to “go and make disciples of all nations” (Matt. 28:19). That mission wasn’t just for the apostles—it’s for every believer, including you. 

And one of the most powerful steps you can take? Start by praying: “Lord, please send someone into my life that I can disciple.” 

Why Discipleship Matters So Much 

Discipleship is how God’s love flows from one heart to another. It’s the process of helping someone grow in their faith—not with perfection, but with presence.

Paul described this when he wrote, “Follow my example, as I follow the example of Christ” (1 Cor. 11:1). He wasn’t claiming to be flawless. He was simply saying, Come with me as I walk with Jesus. 

In a world where so many feel spiritually lost, discouraged, or stagnant, your presence and faithfulness can make an eternal difference. 

“But I’m Not Ready…” 

That’s a common reaction. Maybe you feel unqualified, unsure, or afraid of saying the wrong thing. Here’s the good news: God isn’t looking for professionals. He’s looking for people who are willing. 

You don’t have to be a Bible scholar. You just need to: 

• Love Jesus. 

• Spend time in His Word. 

• Care enough to walk with someone else. 

  
  

Discipleship isn’t about having all the answers. It’s about showing up, pointing to Jesus, and letting God do the heavy lifting. 

Pray with Expectation 

When you pray for God to send someone to disciple, you're aligning yourself with His heart. You're saying, “Lord, make me a conduit of your love. Use me to help someone else grow.” 

This kind of prayer is powerful—and God often answers it faster than we expect. 

It might be a neighbor, a co-worker, a teenager at church, or someone in your small group. Ask the Holy Spirit to open your eyes. The opportunity may already be right in front of you. 

Practical Ways to Get Started 

Here are a few simple ways to step into discipleship—even if you’re nervous: 

1. Start with a Spiritual Conversation 

Ask someone, “How can I pray for you?” or “What’s God been teaching you lately?” Conversations like these can open the door to deeper connection. 

2. Read the Bible Together 

Choose a short book (like Philippians or James), meet once a week, and talk about what you’re learning. Keep it simple and honest. Let God’s Word guide the discussion. 

3. Share Your Struggles and Growth

Discipleship isn’t about presenting a polished version of yourself. It’s about being real. Share how God is helping you grow. Your authenticity will invite theirs. 

4. Use a Trusted Resource 

At Back to the Bible, we offer Bible reading plans, devotionals, and a mobile app that can help you grow alongside someone else. Sometimes having a simple structure makes it easier to get started. 

5. Pray Together 

Even a five-minute prayer with someone can strengthen their faith. It also models for them what it looks like to walk closely with God. 

You Were Made for This 

God didn’t save you just to fill a pew or keep your faith to yourself. He saved you to shine His light into the lives of others (Matt. 5:16). 

Discipleship is part and parcel of the Christian life. It’s not just a program—it’s a lifestyle. It’s how the gospel spreads. And it starts with a prayer: “Lord, who do You want me to disciple?” 

You may be surprised by the person He brings. But one thing’s for sure: as you pour into someone else, God will deepen your own faith, too. 

Final Encouragement 

You don’t need to be perfect. You just need to be available. God will take care of the rest. So don’t wait until you “feel ready.” Start now. Open your heart. Pray boldly. And trust that the God who called you will equip you. 

Because when it comes to discipleship, faithfulness is far more important than expertise.