15 Ways to Build Prayer into Your Home

Chuck Lawless
2 days ago
4 min read

Our homes ought to be places of prayer as we intercede for family members and others.

Getting started in building a praying family, though, is not always easy. In this final article in our series on prayer, here are 15 ways to help you get started:

Agree on a “Spouse Prayer Covenant.” Christian husbands and wives should pray together every day, even if for only a few minutes. That doesn’t happen, though, unless we plan it. Covenant to pray together at least once every day.
Plan a daily parent/child prayer time. I realize that preschoolers may give us only 30 seconds of attention (if that much), but take that time each day. Individually let your children hear you pray for them – and don’t stop just because your kids become teens. They, too, need to hear your praying voice.
Do family prayerwalks. Finding time to take a family walk might be a struggle, but plan at least a weekly walk through your neighborhood. Pray aloud for your neighbors. If you see “For Sale” signs, pray for families in the midst of a move. View toys as a trigger to pray for children. Teach your children to say those prayers.
Do “Family Drive-by Praying.” Even on short trips, your family can find prayer opportunities. Pray for other churches you pass. Intercede for school administrators, teachers, and students when you drive by a school building. Pray for kids on the playground. Invite your children to watch for these places, and they won’t miss many opportunities to pray.
Have a prayer globe or prayer map in your home. Once a week, introduce your family to another part of the world. Show them the location on the globe. Do some homework, and tell them about the people there, including whether they know Jesus. Be certain to pray for the people and for missionaries who may be serving there.
For younger children, create an “Acts Prayer” coloring book. Read about prayer in the book of Acts, and challenge your children to draw the stories. Imagine a child’s drawing of Peter, John, and the lame man at prayer (Acts 3) or Peter’s knocking on the door after his release from prison (Acts 12). Color together, and be sure to pray.
Develop a family prayer list. Every family member probably knows somebody who does not know Jesus. Create that list of names, and pray over it during at least one meal per week.
Electronically pray with distant relatives. In our mobile society, we often don’t get to hear grandparents and other relatives pray for us. Fix that problem by scheduling times to meet and pray via an electronic means. Even a few minutes of prayer from a grandparent can be powerful.
Set up a “Prayer Calendar” to pray for your church. Work with your family to determine different folks to pray for each day (e.g., pastors, Bible study leaders, friends), and put those names on a calendar. Make a calendar for each kid’s room, and remind your family to pray each day. Your kids will probably enjoy crossing off each date as they pray.
Utilize a “prayer jar.” This idea is not original with me, but I like the strategy. Create and decorate a jar, and then write prayer requests on popsicle sticks throughout the week. Encourage family members to pray about one request whenever they walk past the jar.
Each evening, pray about each family member’s next day.  Dad may have an important meeting. Mom has a doctor’s appointment. One of the kids has a test. Make prayer relevant by praying specifically for each family member.
Do your devotions where kids can see you. I know it’s easier to retreat to your quiet place, but kids need memories of their parents reading the Word and praying when it’s not Sunday. Invite them to sit with you while you pray briefly.
Lead a “family fast” for one meal. Instead of eating for one meal, teach about the needs of the world—and then pray about them. You might do research about world and/or local hunger needs and use that information to compel you to pray.
If they’re open to it, regularly pray with your adult children. This idea might surprise you, but I’m convinced we never really outgrow our need and desire for prayer. I will be 65 in two months, and I still find great comfort in an older man praying over me. I wish, in fact, my dad were still alive to do so.
Make sure prayer is in your personal DNA. Our families won’t be praying families until we are praying individuals. Let your family prayer be the overflow of your personal prayer.

We’ve now spent ten weeks together thinking about prayer. If you’ve missed some of these articles, I encourage you to go back and read them as you have time. I hope you’ve found some strong reasons to pray and some simple ways to do it.

So, here are my final suggestions for this series:

As you read the Bible, watch for every time prayer is mentioned. Highlight it. Think about it. Then, be sure to pray for at least a few minutes based on your reading. Your prayer life will grow as you let your Bible reading become dialogical.
Get to know some prayer warriors, and ask them about their prayer lives. My guess is that many of them will be quite humble about their praying (in fact, they’ll probably say that they don’t pray enough), but you can learn from them. Start with just one lunch with someone you believe prays well.
Start somewhere. This point’s really simple: if you pray one minute more today than you did yesterday, or you pray with greater focus and intentionality today, you’re moving in the right direction. Do something based on this series. Blessings!